Sep 15, 2024, 11:22:17 AM
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Janet Wallace:
Im sorry you have had to take care of our siblings. I know it has made your life harder over the last few years. But im glad you were there for them. Im glad they werent alone.
Im sorry i haven't been there for you. I love you
Sep 15, 2024, 1:24:08 PM
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Me:
I missed a call from Snodgrass. They left this voicemail.
Sep 15, 2024, 1:24:49 PM
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Me:
Do you want to call them, or do you want me to? Have you decided if you want to bury or cremate her?
Sep 15, 2024, 1:25:35 PM
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Me:
I'm indifferent. I assume burial costs significantly more. I took out a personal loan so I'll help with costs.
Sep 15, 2024, 1:29:43 PM
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Janet Wallace:
I think we should go with cremation, but jimmy said we should really do whatever she wanted, but i have no idea. I dont think ive ever talked to her about it. I texted laura about cremation & she said yes.
I would think burying her would cost 10-14000. Its shocking how much it costs. I can call them back, but idk how we are going to decide.
Sep 15, 2024, 1:30:32 PM
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Me:
Could we do a viewing then cremation? I think that'd satisfy everyone.
Sep 15, 2024, 1:31:05 PM
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Me:
Maybe not. The embalming process may kill that.
Sep 15, 2024, 1:32:33 PM
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Me:
Cassie thinks she said she wanted burial.
Sep 15, 2024, 1:51:37 PM
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Janet Wallace:
I just talked to laura, i think we should just do cremation & no embalming.
Sep 15, 2024, 1:52:42 PM
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Janet Wallace:
One of those. I guess i don't understand the difference.
Sep 15, 2024, 1:54:01 PM
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Me:
The bottom one. The top one requires us to handle legal processes.
Sep 15, 2024, 2:11:13 PM
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Janet Wallace:
I called them, we are going there tomorrow at 10a. I hope thats ok.
Sep 15, 2024, 2:17:45 PM
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Me:
Yep
Sep 15, 2024, 4:03:36 PM
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Me:
I'm planning on bringing my checkbook, her birth certificate, SS card, and she had a pic of her ID. anything else?
Sep 15, 2024, 4:04:31 PM
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Janet Wallace:
He said a pic of her for obituary, even if we only do it online.
Sep 15, 2024, 4:05:38 PM
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Me:
I have access to her Google accounts and I've downloaded all the data and uploaded it to my Google drive. So, I have tons of photos. Even some... Uh.... Private photos that I didn't want to see. I'll share some albums with you later.
Sep 15, 2024, 4:07:18 PM
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Janet Wallace:
Oh jeez.
Sep 15, 2024, 5:50:57 PM
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Me:
Have you talked to Jean recently? She called me but I was on my way to BestBuy