Cassie

Sep 9, 2023, 12:10:14 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Girls are now only on 1 team. So they can get used to it.

Sep 9, 2023, 12:35:26 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Well we will be there soon not sure where you are

Sep 9, 2023, 1:01:03 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: So where are you and Sawyer ?

Sep 9, 2023, 3:33:08 PM Eastern Time: Me: Don't worry. I'm leaving now. We will be back soon.

Sep 9, 2023, 3:35:07 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You stay up there all day and night but a few hours with Sawyer and you're already leaving

Sep 9, 2023, 4:03:12 PM Eastern Time: Me: Wow. I haven't even ate a meal since lunch yesterday. He hasn't ate anything but snacks since breakfast. Don't worry, I'll feed him when we get back.

Sep 9, 2023, 4:03:14 PM Eastern Time: Me: And you clearly don't trust me with him, or you wouldn't have asked where he was. So I'll just bring him back.

Sep 9, 2023, 4:04:47 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: That is not at all what I said.
I just wanted to know where you guys were.

Sep 9, 2023, 4:05:10 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah. Okay.

Sep 9, 2023, 4:05:17 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Why can't you just go get you guys food?

Sep 9, 2023, 4:05:31 PM Eastern Time: Me: And waste fucking money. I'm not you.

Sep 9, 2023, 4:07:29 PM Eastern Time: Me: You knew where we were. Isn't that what you say to me???

Sep 9, 2023, 4:07:54 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Well I hope you know Alayna is going to ask for you to take her up there with you. Because she said you told her after cheer you would take her

Sep 9, 2023, 4:08:51 PM Eastern Time: Me: That's not quite what I said. It's already 4 and looks like it may rain. I'm just coming home and staying home. I'm not allowed to do shit.

Sep 9, 2023, 4:11:04 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: That's what she said you told her .

Sep 9, 2023, 4:15:03 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: So I guess no response from Kathy after giving her money

Sep 9, 2023, 4:54:06 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: So I guess you went back to bed

Sep 9, 2023, 5:12:59 PM Eastern Time: Me: K. Don't talk to me. I have zero interest in talking with you.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:15:36 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Well, since you have zero interest in talking to me. I'm going to leave later, completely by myself for a couple hours. After I shower and cook dinner . So just to let you know. You can hang out with kids while I'm gone.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:16:21 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I'm not asking for permission to leave by myself.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:16:56 PM Eastern Time: Me: K. Ill start doing that too. Don't ask who I'm with or where I'm going. I'm done with this shit. I'll finalize my paperwork while you're gone. Good. Fucking. Bye.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:17:32 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Well you must be having someone go with you if you're saying that.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:17:54 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You don't ask permission to leave . You just leave . So I'm doing you way you do me

Sep 9, 2023, 5:32:40 PM Eastern Time: Me: Lol, okay. We are done. Good bye. I'm messaging work that I'm taking off Monday. I can't stand this shit. Must be nice to sit on your ass. Still never gave me an answer about the package to Jesse's. I'm sure there's been more than one. You can't bother telling me where you're going but will ask me where Sawyer is. I'm tired of this double standard shit. I'm tired of me working and you doing whatever you want. Don't bother responding. It's just not worth it anymore.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:33:44 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I did answer. It was delivered to her house because her address allowed same day delivery. Our address does not.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:37:22 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: And it was the only damn package I had sent there because I didn't want to wait until 12th . There you happy.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:42:47 PM Eastern Time: Me: And you don't hide anything. K.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:43:14 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: How is that hiding by having a package delivered ? That you even saw ???

Sep 9, 2023, 5:45:15 PM Eastern Time: Me: Alright. I'm not fucking stupid and I'm tired of you acting like I am. Good bye. We are done. I'll work on the paperwork.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:45:34 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: No need.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:48:35 PM Eastern Time: Me: So you've alright filed?

Sep 9, 2023, 5:48:38 PM Eastern Time: Me: Already*

Sep 9, 2023, 5:49:25 PM Eastern Time: Me: So?

Sep 9, 2023, 5:50:02 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Nope.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:50:05 PM Eastern Time: Me: K.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:50:18 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: But I did fill out paperwork because you keep telling me to file.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:50:24 PM Eastern Time: Me: Then why shouldn't I bother? This is obviously finished. You do no wrong and you do it all.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:50:34 PM Eastern Time: Me: Then fucking file.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:51:51 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Multiple times a day you tell me to file. But now you will get mad because I've filled it out and not sent it in .

Sep 9, 2023, 5:53:38 PM Eastern Time: Me: Nope. I'm not mad about that. I'm not going to repeat myself. You haven't gave a fuck in a long time. It's time.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:53:50 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You're the one who who keeps saying you're done and telling me to file.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:55:09 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yep. Because you don't give a fuck. So just file. I'll fill out the respondents packet and attend the first hearing. Bye.

Sep 9, 2023, 5:57:18 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You don't give a fuck everyday you tell me to file. Clearly you are miserable with me.
And I wanted to fill out parenting plan together . I was going to ask for something but never mind. I know you will say no or go off on me.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:01:08 PM Eastern Time: Me: I am miserable. You hide shit all the time. Don't act like you don't. I know better. You can't be bothered to do simple shit like tell me where you are going. You have cheated on me. Regardless of what you say; you cheated emotionally. After we've been married for 7 years, with 3 kids. You overspend and then ask others for money. And more. I've said it over and over. So it's just time.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:04:39 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Yeah I have to ask others for money because you go off on me for asking for money .
You cheated on me for a long time. Regardless of what you say. Two wrongs don't make a right. I wouldn't have to ask others for money if I wasn't talked to like shit for asking .
I'm a lazy piece of shit who hasn't ever done a god damn thing in this house

Sep 9, 2023, 6:05:32 PM Eastern Time: Me: I. Bye.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:05:35 PM Eastern Time: Me: K*

Sep 9, 2023, 6:06:03 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: That's what you have said to me every damn day this fucking week.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:07:14 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I'm glad I have to give an explanation for money. But you send Kathy money and not a word from her. 👍

Sep 9, 2023, 6:09:55 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yep. You do no wrong. You're perfect. You do it all.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:10:39 PM Eastern Time: Me: I wonder why. 20k on a credit card. Fucking drinks, cigs, etc to. Kevin. I can't trust you. And you keep breaking my trust every time I give a little.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:12:01 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I'm not doing anything like you keep thinking . You buy a lot of shit and don't tell me. There have been plenty of times you have sent money to people and gave it to them without saying shit .

Sep 9, 2023, 6:12:32 PM Eastern Time: Me: How do I know? You don't tell me and you hide it from me.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:13:04 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I don't ever money to blow. Most money I get literally goes to gas

Sep 9, 2023, 6:13:06 PM Eastern Time: Me: I am the one who works for it. But that doesn't mean shit to you. You're ungrateful. You expect it and think you are entitled to it.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:13:20 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I have to ask you for money like a child

Sep 9, 2023, 6:13:25 PM Eastern Time: Me: Just make the kids dinner and leave.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:13:40 PM Eastern Time: Me: Good bye. We are done. I'll have these filled out tonight.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:13:51 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I ask for $20.00 and you blow a damn gasket

Sep 9, 2023, 6:14:30 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Then you can come outside and sit . Because I can't cook and have to sit outside because nobody fucking listens to me

Sep 9, 2023, 6:24:51 PM Eastern Time: Me: They can come inside. I'm not helping you with a fucking thing. We are done.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:25:25 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: 👍

Sep 9, 2023, 6:26:22 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Since you don't want to help me willingly . I'm requesting the judge grant me the help then.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:30:01 PM Eastern Time: Me: Alright. And this is part of the problem. You never back down. You always escalate. You're always right though so no surprise. Do what you want. I'll get fucked either way. I'll be bankrupt within a year. Oh well.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:31:46 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: If you go bankrupt it will be your own fault not mine . But you don't want to play nice or help me at all.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:33:20 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, alright. Not me paying thousands in child support and spousal support while paying a mortgage, and utility bills. Real fair. Good bye. I'm done talking. You're right. Always are.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:34:38 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: No I was going to ask you helping me get a place for the kids and I so you wouldn't be paying a mortgage and utilities for me to live in. But since you want to do this. I'll figure it out

Sep 9, 2023, 6:37:12 PM Eastern Time: Me: K. I just want this done with. I'll suffer the consequences. This isn't working. You don't care anymore. I can't take it anymore. Its just time to wash our hands of this.

Sep 9, 2023, 6:39:10 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: That's what you always wanted since we started talking or for this whole relationship

Sep 9, 2023, 6:40:32 PM Eastern Time: Me: K. Bye. This is the last message I'm responding to. Such a waste of my time.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:03:34 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You ruined my motivation to cook a big nice dinner.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:28:40 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: But I'm going to cook a nice dinner anyways . I already have the meat thawing

Sep 9, 2023, 7:40:07 PM Eastern Time: Me: K. I don't care. I'm going to get something to eat. I don't want anything from you. I'm such a piece of shit and you do it all. Don't worry about me - ever again.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:45:08 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Yeah my food must be shitty since you don't like eating it. Since I only make shitty food

Sep 9, 2023, 7:46:44 PM Eastern Time: Me: Alright. I'll be back in a bit. Getting food and that's it. Go back to talking to whoever or doing whatever you do on your phone. It always is and always be more important than I am. Bye

Sep 9, 2023, 7:48:17 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Actually I've been looking up different recipes for dinner tonight . Because I am doing some very different things .

Sep 9, 2023, 7:48:22 PM Eastern Time: Me: I'm hungry as fuck. I haven't ate really anything since lunch yesterday. You didn't even feed the kids dinner yesterday.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:48:52 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Mashed potato bake and this chicken in a big creamy sauce and I'm making some peppers and onions

Sep 9, 2023, 7:49:02 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, Im sure. You'll be on your fucking phone and not paying attention, as always. Do whatever. I'm too hungry sir around for fucking hours.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:49:05 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: So yeah o was definitely making some good food.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:49:33 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Well if you stay and help me . Then it may not take as long

Sep 9, 2023, 7:50:07 PM Eastern Time: Me: I HAVE NOT ATE SINCE YESTERDAY. AND I HAVE BUSTED MY FUCKING ASS.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:50:37 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Alright well I'll just cook for myself. Because I'm sure no one will eat as per usuals

Sep 9, 2023, 7:50:41 PM Eastern Time: Me: You wonder why I lose fucking weight! This is why! Don't worry. I'll take care of myself.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:51:48 PM Eastern Time: Me: And no, it's not your fault and I'm not blaming you. I do not rely on you for a fucking thing. It's my fault.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:52:35 PM Eastern Time: Me: Good bye. I will not talk to you again. I can't stand this shit. You act like you're perfect. Youre a shit fucking partner.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:53:47 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: It is not my fault!!

Sep 9, 2023, 7:56:56 PM Eastern Time: Me: Agreed. I relied on you and I shouldn't have. It's my fault.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:57:58 PM Eastern Time: Me: It's Alaynas fault she didn't have dinner last night too.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:58:00 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: It's not my fault you choose not to eat.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:58:37 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Actually she decided to eat ramen noodles and the other two had pizza rolls because that's what they asked for

Sep 9, 2023, 7:59:07 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah. Such a dinner. Mom of the year.

Sep 9, 2023, 7:59:12 PM Eastern Time: Me: Good bye.

Sep 9, 2023, 8:01:24 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Fuck you . No requirement that I make a full course meal for dinner

Sep 9, 2023, 8:09:48 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Just fucking wow. At least I still fed them, no good damn law says I have to make them a full course meal or real meal everyday. So yeah get off your high horse

Sep 9, 2023, 8:11:11 PM Eastern Time: Me: K. Don't worry. Ill get food for myself. You can do whatever. I'll never rely on you for food again.

Sep 9, 2023, 8:13:40 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Well I am already cooking so whatever

Sep 9, 2023, 8:13:47 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Waste my effort like usual

Sep 9, 2023, 8:16:03 PM Eastern Time: Me: I told you hours ago I was hungry. I gave you a chance.

Sep 9, 2023, 8:16:51 PM Eastern Time: Me: I can't fucking talk to you anymore. You do no wrong and I'm so fuckin tired of it. It's all my god damn fault. Just leave me the fuck alone.

Sep 9, 2023, 8:19:42 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: And I am cooking

Sep 9, 2023, 8:19:57 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Why is it always my fault you age hungry ? That's what you're not comprehending

Sep 9, 2023, 8:54:50 PM Eastern Time: Me: Alright. Why couldn't you cook dinner at a reasonable time last night? That's what youre not comprehending.

Sep 9, 2023, 8:55:05 PM Eastern Time: Me: Why couldn't you start dinner earlier tonight, knowing I was fucking hungry?

Sep 9, 2023, 8:55:21 PM Eastern Time: Me: So, I guess Ava is staying the night?!

Sep 9, 2023, 8:56:11 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Yeah well I didn't even say anything.

Sep 9, 2023, 8:56:18 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: And dinner is almost done anyways

Sep 9, 2023, 8:56:42 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, how many hours after I made it clear I was hungry? 5.

Sep 9, 2023, 8:56:56 PM Eastern Time: Me: No, she's not. You're leaving and I wasn't even fucking asked.

Sep 9, 2023, 8:58:56 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Tell the girls that. Because I never answered them about that

Sep 9, 2023, 9:01:50 PM Eastern Time: Me: Alright. Great. Bye.

Sep 9, 2023, 9:02:10 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I didn't. I never said a word

Sep 9, 2023, 9:10:09 PM Eastern Time: Me: Just fucking leave. Bye.

Sep 9, 2023, 9:11:05 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I'm still finishing dinner

Sep 9, 2023, 9:31:00 PM Eastern Time: Me: This is why they need to be in their own fucking beds. You can deal with this shit. Thanks for letting them have someone over tonight. You could have said no instead of nothing. I fucking hate this and I can't wait for it to be over and to be out of this fucking house.

Sep 9, 2023, 9:31:09 PM Eastern Time: Me: I'm not doing any fucking laundry or cleaning. Fuck it.

Sep 9, 2023, 9:32:16 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: This is exactly why I don't put a lot of effort in dinner anymore. You don't eat it and they see that you don't . So they don't think it's good enough for you it's not good enough for them to eat.

Sep 9, 2023, 9:32:28 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: So thanks for that.

Sep 9, 2023, 9:34:01 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I made a good dinner and none of you are going to fucking eat it.

Sep 9, 2023, 9:34:19 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: So you can call me mother of the year for making them something quick. But I don't give a fuck

Sep 9, 2023, 9:34:55 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: They had something to eat. And I put a lot of work into this dinner. And none of you are eating it

Sep 9, 2023, 9:35:24 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Not a fucking one of you

Sep 9, 2023, 10:31:31 PM Eastern Time: Me: I waited 5 fucking hours for you to make something. I was too fucking hungry. But I'm in the wrong. What's new. Always my fucking fault. ALWAYS. Just tell me when you leave. Don't bother texting, I'm not reading it.

Sep 9, 2023, 10:34:13 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I'm too upset to leave. No one gave a shit that I looked up several recipes today and literally tried my best to make something good. It wasn't good enough. So it's whatever.

Sep 9, 2023, 11:25:57 PM Eastern Time: Me: YOU NEED TO SEE WHAT THE GIRLS ARE DOING IN THE BATHROOM

Sep 9, 2023, 11:26:42 PM Eastern Time: Me: God damn. I'm fucking tired of this shit. It's not that it wasn't good enough. I TOLD YOU I WAS HUNGRY 5 HOURS BEFORE YOU COOKED. so I got something. They fucked it up though so I'm still hungry.

Sep 9, 2023, 11:28:00 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Well you have a plate. I was pretty proud of the chicken and sauce I made

Sep 9, 2023, 11:35:46 PM Eastern Time: Me: I ate it. It was good. Thanks.
See? I can thank you without you asking. But you certainly didn't say anything about the bacon, chicken, ranch dinner I made.

Sep 9, 2023, 11:37:39 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Actually I did when you were walking by I ate two plates of it.
Well I'm glad you liked my dinner. That makes me feel better . That chicken took almost 2 hours

Sep 9, 2023, 11:38:27 PM Eastern Time: Me: Uh, I was in bed when you got here. So, no, you didn't. I'm sure I'm wrong because you're always in the right.
Night.

Sep 9, 2023, 11:38:55 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You were not asleep and you came down here and I said dinner was good thanks

Sep 9, 2023, 11:39:30 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Tell the girls to turn some lights off up there

Sep 9, 2023, 11:45:43 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Did the sauce remind you kind of brandy peppercorn sauce? Or something else