Me to Cassie

Apr 3, 2023, 4:27:31 AM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, time and again you prove you don't give a shit. I did the fucking dishes.
Ill be filing this week. I'll be looking for a place to live. If I can't find something that I cannot afford, I'll go live with someone else.
I hate my life. You don't care. You've already found someone to replace me. You only stopped the divorce because of the financial security I provide. You're only working to get away from me. So lets just get it done with. It's what you want. You made that clear by sticking with the divorce for so fucking long.
Yeah, i know that was a waste of my time and effort. You won't actually address anything I said. You'll just blame me for this or that. You'll say you were going to do this or that. But the reality is, it won't last.

Apr 3, 2023, 8:38:38 AM Eastern Time: Me: Kids are up.

Apr 3, 2023, 8:43:47 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Ugh

Apr 3, 2023, 8:47:06 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Have you seen Sawyer iPad ?

Apr 3, 2023, 8:47:26 AM Eastern Time: Me: No. Check girls and boys rooms

Apr 3, 2023, 8:48:05 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: He kept saying it's in your car

Apr 3, 2023, 8:48:54 AM Eastern Time: Me: I'll check but I don't think so

Apr 3, 2023, 8:53:21 AM Eastern Time: Me: I don't see it in my car.

Apr 3, 2023, 8:54:28 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Ugh great. I have no idea where it is

Apr 3, 2023, 8:55:14 AM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, this is why I wanted the find your device on them. But, no, couldn't do that.

Apr 3, 2023, 8:55:52 AM Eastern Time: Me: I'm tired of this shit. I'll fucking set it up on all of them. I'll talk to you later.

Apr 3, 2023, 8:56:17 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: He had it on Saturday and now I don't know where it is

Apr 3, 2023, 9:09:46 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: She is being a nightmare

Apr 3, 2023, 9:16:48 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Can I please have one

Apr 3, 2023, 9:18:36 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Hey

Apr 3, 2023, 9:22:43 AM Eastern Time: Me: Jesus. Wtf

Apr 3, 2023, 9:22:51 AM Eastern Time: Me: This is fucking stupid shit.

Apr 3, 2023, 9:22:54 AM Eastern Time: Me: I fucking guess.

Apr 3, 2023, 9:23:10 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Listen to her

Apr 3, 2023, 9:23:44 AM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, but you never just talk to them. You just yell.

Apr 3, 2023, 9:24:18 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: She has been screaming at me kicking me . I only mentioned getting ready and she is acing crazy.

Apr 3, 2023, 9:24:31 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: After she screams and kicks me yeah I'm going to get mad

Apr 3, 2023, 9:24:44 AM Eastern Time: Me: Okay. I'm not repeating myself

Apr 3, 2023, 9:24:51 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: And she was hitting the other kids . Like no . She's out of control

Apr 3, 2023, 9:25:29 AM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, and you think that you working all the fucking time, while I also have to work, is helping anything

Apr 3, 2023, 9:34:20 AM Eastern Time: Me: MMS Sent

Apr 3, 2023, 9:39:10 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Yeah I told them I can't do that

Apr 3, 2023, 9:39:31 AM Eastern Time: Me: But you are. And you'll fight with me about it

Apr 3, 2023, 9:40:11 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: That new girl better be trained by Friday because she can close

Apr 3, 2023, 9:45:52 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: I got 2.5 hours of training and she's getting a few days

Apr 3, 2023, 9:51:00 AM Eastern Time: Me: Okay

Apr 3, 2023, 9:59:31 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Had that check released anything

Apr 3, 2023, 10:04:34 AM Eastern Time: Me: I haven't even submitted it yet. I am working. I guess I'll do it now

Apr 3, 2023, 10:06:32 AM Eastern Time: Me: It won't be available today. It never is.

Apr 3, 2023, 10:06:40 AM Eastern Time: Me: How much do you need

Apr 3, 2023, 10:08:03 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Like 20

Apr 3, 2023, 10:09:17 AM Eastern Time: Me: Sent.

Apr 3, 2023, 10:09:37 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Thanks

Apr 3, 2023, 10:10:55 AM Eastern Time: Me: Let me guess: for lunch?

Apr 3, 2023, 10:11:22 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: No gas

Apr 3, 2023, 10:25:08 AM Eastern Time: Me: Okay. I'll talk to you later.

Apr 3, 2023, 10:29:01 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: I'm stressed out

Apr 3, 2023, 10:31:43 AM Eastern Time: Me: What now

Apr 3, 2023, 10:33:24 AM Eastern Time: Me: Alright.

Apr 3, 2023, 10:39:40 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: About all these hours. The kids.
I'm just having a meltdown

Apr 3, 2023, 10:53:52 AM Eastern Time: Me: Alright. Well, I cant help. You don't listen to me or accept any help I try to give.

Apr 3, 2023, 11:22:50 AM Eastern Time: Me: Okay. Talk to you later.

Apr 3, 2023, 11:33:47 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: I don't want to be here today.

Apr 3, 2023, 11:34:05 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: I've been thinking

Apr 3, 2023, 11:34:59 AM Eastern Time: Me: John wants to connect ava with one of the kids. I can't approve it.

Apr 3, 2023, 11:39:43 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Okay

Apr 3, 2023, 11:43:29 AM Eastern Time: Me: 5 minutes to respond to just that. Yeah, don't bother.

Apr 3, 2023, 11:45:16 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: I told you you have to add me as a friend so I can get you back on there

Apr 3, 2023, 11:45:43 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Alayna wants to chat with your child on Messenger Kids! You can connect them using this link: https://www.Facebook.com/mk_connect/?link_id=dGg4a3I6NjA4MzA5NDc3ODQ0NDM5NDpw&target_app=fb

Apr 3, 2023, 11:45:49 AM Eastern Time: Me: I mean, you could've added me as well, which would've been easier.

Apr 3, 2023, 11:46:23 AM Eastern Time: Me: It's not even about the messenger bullshit anyways. It's the fact that you always take your sweet time responding, unless you're mad.

Apr 3, 2023, 11:50:07 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: It won't let me add you. You have me blocked

Apr 3, 2023, 11:50:24 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Maybe not on messenger but you do on actual Facebook

Apr 3, 2023, 11:51:01 AM Eastern Time: Me: Oh well. Im not interested any more. this whole bullshit thing is ridiculous. I'll just talk to you later.

Apr 3, 2023, 11:56:05 AM Eastern Time: Cassie: Are you going to accept it ?

Apr 3, 2023, 12:05:11 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Guess not

Apr 3, 2023, 12:16:21 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Ugh I have to go for more stupid blood work tomorrow

Apr 3, 2023, 12:26:44 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: More diabetes fucking blood work,

Apr 3, 2023, 12:47:37 PM Eastern Time: Me: I accepted it.
I have to find ways to save money. I'm tired of being broke. From now on, I'm not just going to let you spend whatever you want on a birthday party. $300, max. And I'm going to start putting some away from each paycheck. Also, you can't come to me at the last minute for hundreds of dollars any more. All of this clean laundry all over the fucking house is costing me a lot of money because it ends up having to get washed and dried again. Water, electricity for heat and drier, sewage, soap, etc etc. I'm tired of fucking pissing money away.

Apr 3, 2023, 12:48:43 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: How about I pay the lower bills

Apr 3, 2023, 12:49:47 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Internet sewer and water

Apr 3, 2023, 12:51:27 PM Eastern Time: Me: Alright. You missed the point. Great. I'll talk to you later.

Apr 3, 2023, 12:51:50 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I get it. We have to lower costs. And save money.

Apr 3, 2023, 12:54:04 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: So 300 max includes venue decorations and gifts ?

Apr 3, 2023, 1:03:50 PM Eastern Time: Me: Let me guess. It's not enough

Apr 3, 2023, 1:04:32 PM Eastern Time: Me: Why the fuck do you have to always spend so much god damn money?!

Apr 3, 2023, 1:05:46 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: No I was just asking. Because I have to plan Alayna's birthday

Apr 3, 2023, 1:05:53 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: So I wanted to make sure that's what you meant

Apr 3, 2023, 1:07:20 PM Eastern Time: Me: I mean, you're working, you could contribute instead of blowing the fuck up on me.

Apr 3, 2023, 1:07:42 PM Eastern Time: Me: Im pretty sure the reason you blew up on me about sawyers birthday is because you overspent.

Apr 3, 2023, 1:08:44 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: No. I didn't know it was going to be like that. I misunderstood what they said so it screwed me

Apr 3, 2023, 1:09:51 PM Eastern Time: Me: I still don't think we are going to be able to continue. I still don't trust you and you don't do anything to try to gain my trust back. You obviously don't care. The fact that you wouldn't just simply enable your location history proves that. I didn't even ask to see it. Just the fact that you won't even do it shows your hiding something. I can't keep putting myself through this.

Apr 3, 2023, 1:13:33 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I tried to share my location with you and you didn't want me to do that. That way you could see where I'm at .

Apr 3, 2023, 1:32:20 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I turned my timeline on.

Apr 3, 2023, 2:44:35 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Have you seen any of my razor blades ? I can't find any and my legs are 🤢🤢🤢

Apr 3, 2023, 3:07:24 PM Eastern Time: Me: I dont have a clue.
Why do you have to make shit so fucking difficult?????

Apr 3, 2023, 3:13:34 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Not making anything difficult. Just asking if you've seen them

Apr 3, 2023, 3:17:25 PM Eastern Time: Me: Not about the fucking razors, god damn

Apr 3, 2023, 3:17:51 PM Eastern Time: Me: What the fuck. Do you just forget everything we are talking about minute to minute???

Apr 3, 2023, 3:18:17 PM Eastern Time: Me: I don't understand why you just forget everything I say but you can remember everyone's fucking birthdays.

Apr 3, 2023, 3:18:45 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: No. But you never responded to the other so I thought you were answering about razors

Apr 3, 2023, 3:18:55 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: No I don't forget but you never responded about me turning that on

Apr 3, 2023, 3:19:13 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, alright.

Apr 3, 2023, 3:59:23 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: We are at teays valley need or want anything

Apr 3, 2023, 4:10:10 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Well never mind almost home

Apr 3, 2023, 4:18:08 PM Eastern Time: Me: I need out of the house. I am here too much.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:34:15 PM Eastern Time: Me: It's funny how it's always that you just found out about whatever the fuck, right before I ask about it. Yeah, alright.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:34:48 PM Eastern Time: Me: The smart lock on the garage door is useless. Thanks.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:37:29 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: What about it v

Apr 3, 2023, 4:37:46 PM Eastern Time: Me: ... wtf do you mean?!?!

Apr 3, 2023, 4:38:42 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: The garage lock

Apr 3, 2023, 4:39:00 PM Eastern Time: Me: Omg. I'm not stupid. What did you not understand about it being useless?!

Apr 3, 2023, 4:39:13 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You took batteries out

Apr 3, 2023, 4:39:47 PM Eastern Time: Me: Uh, yeah. So it should be fucking locked! The batteries have nothing to do with it. You fucked it up when you had your fucking temper tantrum.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:41:47 PM Eastern Time: Me: Just let them wear the fucking sweat shirt! They'll take it off!

Apr 3, 2023, 4:42:07 PM Eastern Time: Me: Id be better off talking to myself. I'll be back later.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:43:50 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: He wants a sweatshirt on and it's too hot and he already has a long sleeve shirt

Apr 3, 2023, 4:44:18 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: No it was off when I came in that night. I never touched it

Apr 3, 2023, 4:44:53 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: But I get blamed for it and I didn't touch it before trying to open the door.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:45:10 PM Eastern Time: Me: Omg. You fucking ripped it open!

Apr 3, 2023, 4:45:19 PM Eastern Time: Me: Like wtf

Apr 3, 2023, 4:45:49 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: The knob was on when I tried yonopen it. I didn't break it

Apr 3, 2023, 4:45:54 PM Eastern Time: Me: It doesn't matter. As usual, no responsibility.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:46:08 PM Eastern Time: Me: It's my fault. Fuck it. I'll take it off.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:46:14 PM Eastern Time: Me: I'll be back later.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:46:15 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I'm not taking responsibility for breaking it when it was not working when I got here

Apr 3, 2023, 4:46:32 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: So no I will not accept fault on something I didn't break

Apr 3, 2023, 4:50:48 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yep.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:51:15 PM Eastern Time: Me: You opened a locked door without the key. And now it doesn't stay shut. But yeah. Not your fault.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:52:00 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You have the keys. And it wasn't locked if I can open it: but yeah you will blame me when it was already broken.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:52:21 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: The kids even said it was broke that they had been trying to get out there and couldn't get it .

Apr 3, 2023, 4:52:32 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: But yeah my fault. Like always

Apr 3, 2023, 4:52:45 PM Eastern Time: Me: Okay. Whatever. I don't even care. Same shit. Not your money.

Apr 3, 2023, 4:52:56 PM Eastern Time: Me: Fuck bye.

Apr 3, 2023, 5:37:59 PM Eastern Time: Me: So who is watching Sawyer ?

Apr 3, 2023, 5:39:38 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, thanks for answering. What's fucking new.

Apr 3, 2023, 5:41:07 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Ricky is supposed to be

Apr 3, 2023, 5:41:19 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You just messaged me

Apr 3, 2023, 5:41:32 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You don't answer me instantly

Apr 3, 2023, 5:41:53 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: And Sawyer was just in the house

Apr 3, 2023, 5:45:41 PM Eastern Time: Me: I usually do answer you pretty quickly. I turned off notifications, since you take your time to answer.

Apr 3, 2023, 5:52:30 PM Eastern Time: Me: Precisely. I'm just going to put my phone up.

Apr 3, 2023, 5:53:52 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You're not talking about anything but me not responded in 2 seconds

Apr 3, 2023, 6:09:37 PM Eastern Time: Me: That right there is a perfect example of not taking responsibility. I gave you what you asked for. You didn't get cigarettes. But, as usual, I'll pay for it.

Apr 3, 2023, 6:10:46 PM Eastern Time: Me: And I see you did the rest that was out here. Cool.

Apr 3, 2023, 6:10:49 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I told you I needed gas and that's what I got

Apr 3, 2023, 6:11:03 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: The hell if I did

Apr 3, 2023, 6:15:10 PM Eastern Time: Me: Wow. Still not your fault that you didn't get cigs. You are amazing.

Apr 3, 2023, 6:18:53 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: So I should have got cigs with what money ?

Apr 3, 2023, 6:19:08 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: When I only had 20..

Apr 3, 2023, 6:19:25 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: 72 cents isn't getting a pack of cigs, but okay

Apr 3, 2023, 6:21:13 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: MMS Received

Apr 3, 2023, 6:21:43 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Yeah so getting gas was a little more important than cigs

Apr 3, 2023, 6:21:59 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I didn't even get myself something to eat . So I could make it back,

Apr 3, 2023, 6:28:04 PM Eastern Time: Me: And now you're going to be mad at me. Because this is somehow my fault.

Apr 3, 2023, 6:29:54 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I offer to get you stuff when I have money.

Apr 3, 2023, 6:30:06 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Your aging like 213 check goes a long way. Sorry but it doesn't

Apr 3, 2023, 6:30:50 PM Eastern Time: Me: Wow. Good fucking bye

Apr 3, 2023, 6:44:33 PM Eastern Time: Me: Youre an ungrateful asshole. Hell, you didn't even ask if I was okay or feeling better this morning.

Apr 3, 2023, 6:44:59 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Actually I did I was trying to comfort you this morning.

Apr 3, 2023, 6:48:32 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, okay.

Apr 3, 2023, 6:48:50 PM Eastern Time: Me: Good bye. I need to be around someone who actually gives a fuck.

Apr 3, 2023, 6:52:12 PM Eastern Time: Me: And I don't mean another woman. I mean a friend.

Apr 3, 2023, 6:54:39 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Wow.

Apr 3, 2023, 6:55:32 PM Eastern Time: Me: You don't give a shit.

Apr 3, 2023, 7:03:04 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: When have you let me talk to you it's been yelling at me or bitching at me .

Apr 3, 2023, 7:03:12 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I literally can't do a fucking thing right

Apr 3, 2023, 7:09:10 PM Eastern Time: Me: Just from your fucking floor.

Apr 3, 2023, 7:09:23 PM Eastern Time: Me: Because you don't give a shit. All you care about is your fucking phone.

Apr 3, 2023, 7:10:44 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I didn't do the clothes that way. I also didn't throw my shit out of a box either, but yeah it's my fault for not cleaning up sorry

Apr 3, 2023, 7:11:17 PM Eastern Time: Me: And now you're going to be a smartass.

Apr 3, 2023, 7:11:20 PM Eastern Time: Me: Fuck this shit.

Apr 3, 2023, 7:14:48 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I wasn't being a smart ass god fucking dammit!!

Apr 3, 2023, 7:14:57 PM Eastern Time: Me: None of this is my fault. It also shouldn't be my responsibility.

Apr 3, 2023, 7:15:04 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, alright.

Apr 3, 2023, 7:15:21 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Don't message me if you can't talk to me like a human being,

Apr 3, 2023, 7:15:34 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I messed up on punctuation. Got damn

Apr 3, 2023, 7:15:51 PM Eastern Time: Me: Alright. Bye. I don't need this.

Apr 3, 2023, 7:16:48 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: YOU ARE DOING THIS TO ME!!! Over everything fucking thing.

Apr 3, 2023, 7:17:12 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: But nope you not starting anything or doing anything. Nope. Just keep degrading me and talking to me like trash.

Apr 3, 2023, 7:18:55 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You're doing it on purpose to push me so far until I snap and go reinstate the divorce .Exactly wtf you're doing.