Cassie

Mar 21, 2023, 12:03:24 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Boys are to do their laundry that includes washing it.
Girls are to put their laundry away.

Sawyer has soccer practice at 630 @. Quantum sports on Tuesdays for next 8 weeks ..

Address is ; 3548 teays valley rd hurricane wv 25526
Far building in the back you will go beside dollar general . It's the last building in that lot in the back.

Chores; bedrooms
Dining room
Living room
Get all trash out of their rooms
( boys are to take the trash out)

I am going to be cleaning up, some stuff and starting to fold laundry today.

Girls have gymnastics m/w 540-620 for Alayna
630-730 for Kynsley.

I wrote all this on the board.
So I figured I would tell you.
I'm also going to start some dinner before I leave today also.

Mar 21, 2023, 12:08:03 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Both boys have appointments tomorrow at 130 at new doctor.
Girls and Sawyer have dental appointments Thursday morning .
I do have to work a double Thursday. As the other girl has to go to Ohio for a blood transfusion and a couple other appointments. So I am covering for her.
Sawyer will be with my mom after the dental appointments. And I will have my Doug and mom bring him home that evening probably around 6 ish .
So I'm letting you know. In advance. So you know what's happening.

Mar 21, 2023, 12:32:45 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I'm going to slow cook some spaghetti sauce

Mar 21, 2023, 12:33:12 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: For you guys to have for dinner tonight. I may even just make lasagna for you guys

Mar 21, 2023, 12:36:02 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Do you want some lunch ?

Mar 21, 2023, 1:11:41 PM Eastern Time: Me: Whew. Fuck your god damn job. I work and make good money but get no fucking time to do anything.

Mar 21, 2023, 1:11:53 PM Eastern Time: Me: I don't want a fucking thing.

Mar 21, 2023, 1:12:45 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Thursday is last double I have to do.

Mar 21, 2023, 1:13:01 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: And next week I only work 2 evenings rest are days

Mar 21, 2023, 1:14:09 PM Eastern Time: Me: K

Mar 21, 2023, 1:30:31 PM Eastern Time: Me: I'm frustrated because I talk to you about every fucking thing. Usually before I commit to it or agree to it. You don't talk to me about a fucking thing, until it's too late. You don't ever listen to me. K going to after school is prime fucking example of that.

Mar 21, 2023, 1:31:18 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yes, waking up late is completely my fault. But I have to make up the time and the tasks. Now, I'll have to work after you get home from work. I'll have to work most of the night.

Mar 21, 2023, 1:33:56 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: No Kathy is coming over to watch them until 630-7 so you can do your whole shift . So I have that taken care of.

Mar 21, 2023, 1:34:49 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I tried talk to you about all of it. And telling you I was trying to fix it to make it better.

Mar 21, 2023, 1:35:02 PM Eastern Time: Me: Don't worry about it. I'll figure out my shit. I don't care anymore. You haven't for a while, so why should I? Ill just make sure to do enough shit that I stay up until I pass the fuck out.

Mar 21, 2023, 1:35:41 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: New girl starts and she's going on pretty much evenings . So that gives me more days off and working during the day. Instead of evening.

Mar 21, 2023, 1:37:46 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: No she already agreed to do it for me. And I am starting sauce so you only need to make noodles for dinner .
I'm trying to compromise. So this is me trying to do that.
I fully quit in person school and I am working on potentially doing online school. To finish up my medical assisting.
Figured I'd let you know since I am working on all that. And which helps me out helps you out and in here more with the kids .

Mar 21, 2023, 2:03:59 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Kitchen is cleaned dishes going . Floor is cleaned trash is changed .
Started sauce .
And I'm going to clean up living room really quick.
Trash for kids to take out is on picnic table

Mar 21, 2023, 2:49:47 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Can I have one or two please

Mar 21, 2023, 3:25:37 PM Eastern Time: Me: For one here

Mar 21, 2023, 3:26:09 PM Eastern Time: Me: Got*

Mar 21, 2023, 5:05:55 PM Eastern Time: Me: I assume you made it to work.

Mar 21, 2023, 5:07:37 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Yeah. Almost got into a car accident. Because some guy was driving in my lane . Scared the shit out of me

Mar 21, 2023, 5:08:32 PM Eastern Time: Me: And you still cannot communicate. Like how is this a relationship anymore? It's more of a transactional relationship. Quite shitty.

Mar 21, 2023, 5:10:56 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I'm trying to make it more of a relationship . I really am trying .

Mar 21, 2023, 5:11:34 PM Eastern Time: Me: I guess.

Mar 21, 2023, 5:12:02 PM Eastern Time: Me: If you have to try at it, I don't think there's a point

Mar 21, 2023, 5:12:20 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I mean I'm trying to help clean and such . Hang out with you. Talk to you. Not I'm not perfect right now but I really am working on things you want me to fix

Mar 21, 2023, 5:13:19 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I guess you don't see what I am trying to do fix our relationship

Mar 21, 2023, 5:13:22 PM Eastern Time: Me: I guess the difference is I have no one else to talk to.

Mar 21, 2023, 5:13:46 PM Eastern Time: Me: It's not about that. I don't try to talk to you. It's just what I do.

Mar 21, 2023, 5:14:33 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I do talk to you. But here lately it seems like you don't really want to

Mar 21, 2023, 5:14:53 PM Eastern Time: Me: Because you don't listen to me until I get mad

Mar 21, 2023, 5:17:55 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Well; I am working getting things going to finish my cma it will just be from home and online. All my clincial stuff will be sent to the house.

Mar 21, 2023, 5:18:30 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I need to find a laptop because I am not sure I can use yours for some of the programs that it requires but we will
See,

Mar 21, 2023, 5:18:33 PM Eastern Time: Me: Okay, cool. Is that free or do you need to get a student loan or something?

Mar 21, 2023, 5:18:56 PM Eastern Time: Me: I'd rather get one and be done with it. What's the status of the return with the IRS

Mar 21, 2023, 5:19:27 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Well I am trying to get grants so I don't have to pay those back but I guess we will see.
Pending review

Mar 21, 2023, 5:19:48 PM Eastern Time: Me: I may be able to get loans through Peraton

Mar 21, 2023, 5:20:22 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Loans for ?

Mar 21, 2023, 5:20:50 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Have checked on sauce or does it at least smell good ?

Mar 21, 2023, 5:21:01 PM Eastern Time: Me: Uh, schooling for you

Mar 21, 2023, 5:21:42 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Oh , well I am trying to just do grants. So no paying back anything .

Mar 21, 2023, 5:22:50 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Good thing is my transcripts from Everest and c c c t c will transfer a lot. So I don't have to retake a bunch of shit .

Mar 21, 2023, 5:22:57 PM Eastern Time: Me: Right. But if that's not approved, then what

Mar 21, 2023, 5:23:45 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I'll have direct student loans that have 6 months after I graduate to start paying. But I'll know more in a couple weeks .

Mar 21, 2023, 5:24:38 PM Eastern Time: Me: Again, I'd rather do it through Peraton if possible. As long as grades are good, nothing to pay back

Mar 21, 2023, 5:24:38 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I just started trying on this yesterday . So I don't have all the answers yet. So hopefully soon .

Mar 21, 2023, 5:26:00 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I'm going to apply for a scholarship they have for moms which would pay for all of it. But I don't know how that will work out . So I guess we will see after I submit the application for it

Mar 21, 2023, 5:27:39 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Just been looking into options . But that clinic kit will have a lot of needles and such . It will have to be put up.

Mar 21, 2023, 5:27:58 PM Eastern Time: Me: Very much so. May want a lockbox

Mar 21, 2023, 5:28:16 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Yeah I was thinking about a safe like yours

Mar 21, 2023, 5:28:39 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Or maybe not as extravagant but something.

Mar 21, 2023, 5:30:47 PM Eastern Time: Me: A wall mounted lockbox would be easy

Mar 21, 2023, 5:31:26 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I'm going to look on Amazon for one ?

Mar 21, 2023, 5:31:48 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I don't know why that sent a question mark

Mar 21, 2023, 5:34:09 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Kyodoled Suggestion Box with Lock Wall Mounted,Mail Box, Key Drop Box Cards, Safe Lock Box,Ballot Box,Donation Box,3W x 10H x 12L Inc... https://a.co/d/cE7Jgsz

Mar 21, 2023, 5:34:48 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Yeah I don't know about that one

Mar 21, 2023, 5:37:54 PM Eastern Time: Me: Ugh. I'm slammed. I need more subordinates

Mar 21, 2023, 5:38:00 PM Eastern Time: Me: Harbor freight has one

Mar 21, 2023, 5:40:03 PM Eastern Time: Me: I'm just going to have to work after you get home.

Mar 21, 2023, 5:40:55 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: That's why I was hoping Kathy was coming. I was trying to alleviate some stress.
Tell boys to take Sawyer out back and play for a while . It's very nice outside

Mar 21, 2023, 5:41:39 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah right. They have their phones

Mar 21, 2023, 5:48:38 PM Eastern Time: Me: Well, not so much fylix. He's outside playing bball. Ricky is stuck on his phone as usual.

Mar 21, 2023, 5:50:05 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Well you can tell them
I said get off them and go play with him.

Mar 21, 2023, 5:51:00 PM Eastern Time: Me: No, I'll get off work in a few and keep him occupied

Mar 21, 2023, 5:53:11 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: If they play with him they won't have to do laundry

Mar 21, 2023, 6:00:24 PM Eastern Time: Me: I want a new fucking job. I don't even want to work anymore. It's getting to be too much

Mar 21, 2023, 6:07:34 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Ugh but this only one that kind of allows you flexibility

Mar 21, 2023, 6:07:38 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: If that makes any sense

Mar 21, 2023, 6:08:22 PM Eastern Time: Me: I'm just getting too stressed by work, the kids, you, money, etc.

Mar 21, 2023, 6:09:04 PM Eastern Time: Me: Everyone wants and needs me but there's only me. I only have so many fucking hands

Mar 21, 2023, 6:11:17 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You should clone like 10 of you

Mar 21, 2023, 6:11:28 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: 3 for work rest for whatever

Mar 21, 2023, 6:11:36 PM Eastern Time: Me: Whew. I'd kill them.

Mar 21, 2023, 6:12:07 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I mean if you have 3 for work you wouldn't have to do anything

Mar 21, 2023, 6:14:39 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: If everything goes right, I'll be able to start school April 24th but it's on my own time and schedule.
So this will be kind of exciting.

Mar 21, 2023, 6:16:08 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Don't have to miss school for doctor appointments or kids being sick. And I will have the ability of doing all clinical stuff right from home or literally anywhere. So, this will hopefully be good.

Mar 21, 2023, 6:21:59 PM Eastern Time: Me: I'm ready for Sawyer to start school.

Mar 21, 2023, 6:22:17 PM Eastern Time: Me: I want a job out of the house. I'm tired of being in the house all the time.

Mar 21, 2023, 6:23:49 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Too bad we can't move back to VA

Mar 21, 2023, 6:24:12 PM Eastern Time: Me: I don't think id want to be in a Peraton office.

Mar 21, 2023, 6:24:16 PM Eastern Time: Me: Too big of a company.

Mar 21, 2023, 6:24:53 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I meant another job

Mar 21, 2023, 6:25:31 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, fat chance without a clearance. Lost that summabitch

Mar 21, 2023, 6:26:07 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Get you a street corner job. I hear those pay well 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Mar 21, 2023, 6:32:29 PM Eastern Time: Me: And Sawyer is out front.

Mar 21, 2023, 6:40:06 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: With the boys ?

Mar 21, 2023, 6:40:17 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah but they don't pay attention

Mar 21, 2023, 6:40:29 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: Ugh fuck

Mar 21, 2023, 6:42:37 PM Eastern Time: Me: I'll check in a second

Mar 21, 2023, 6:42:55 PM Eastern Time: Me: Ugh. I gotta stop working. I gotta make dinner.

Mar 21, 2023, 6:52:14 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: You jus need to do noodles

Mar 21, 2023, 6:52:22 PM Eastern Time: Me: Ugh. FML. I am too stressed. I need time off work. Fuck.

Mar 21, 2023, 6:53:00 PM Eastern Time: Me: Yeah, but I am slammed at work and I have to deal with the kids. A is crying because I didn't want her going into the neighbors house because I want to make dinner

Mar 21, 2023, 6:58:36 PM Eastern Time: Me: Okay, I'm getting tired of these statements from the doctor. Do you have an account with Marshall health

Mar 21, 2023, 6:59:04 PM Eastern Time: Me: Also, what's going on with child support from the boys dad or, you know, half of their medical bills

Mar 21, 2023, 7:03:00 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I haven't heard from child support for them yet, they have to reevaluate with the case.
Not really because it doesn't let me really pay them . And they keep switching programs. So I can't keep up

Mar 21, 2023, 7:06:34 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: I got to website to just pay without account or I call the billing office.

Mar 21, 2023, 7:07:08 PM Eastern Time: Cassie: They won't even connect all the kids to my account so I can see bills and I have sent numerous messages and phone calls to their IT DEPT