Jan 23, 2023, 6:59:28 AM
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Me:
As long as I'm paying you what's required, doing as the court ordered, and I'm not endangering the children, we don't need to talk. It's just not worth it.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:01:34 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
So you saying that means you did. So why are you lying ?
Jan 23, 2023, 7:01:46 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
What the actual fuck.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:02:06 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
No, it means I'm sick of this stupid shit
Jan 23, 2023, 7:04:40 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
The kids are noticing you are not sleeping. Does that not bother you?
Jan 23, 2023, 7:05:30 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright. I think I've made it clear I'm not doing this.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:06:34 AM
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Cassie:
No use in me asking them because I know damn well they will lie .
Jan 23, 2023, 7:07:16 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright. I don't give a fuck. Yeah, this was a mistake. Back to blocked.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:07:18 AM
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Cassie:
Kirk lies for saying he doesn't get it for you. So whatever.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:07:46 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
What's new. You can't handle being called out .
Jan 23, 2023, 7:10:52 AM
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Me:
Yeah, that's what it is. At least I wont file paperwork on you for it.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:12:07 AM
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Cassie:
You can just admit that you hate me.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:12:46 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I'm sick of this shit. I've said it over and over. You act like you're all high and mighty when you do this shit. It's fucking ridiculous
Jan 23, 2023, 7:14:03 AM
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Cassie:
Yeah I don't stay up for days. So kids don't notice . But you do and they do notice. But, you don't give a fuck. That's the difference. You don't care if they notice or see anything you're doing.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:14:25 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright. Bye.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:15:08 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Fylix even said you have been up all night. But yeah you don't care .
Jan 23, 2023, 7:33:15 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
God dammit. I'm so sick of this shit. Every. Fucking. Day!!!!!!!!! I will be filing my papers today. I'm taking the fucking day off of work.
Jan 23, 2023, 9:14:48 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Yeah because you don't care
Jan 23, 2023, 9:15:20 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Stop telling Kirk to message me for rides
Jan 23, 2023, 9:38:06 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
You're right. I don't care to be bitched at and fight all the damn time.
I didn't tell him to do shit. I said it was better if he asked. But whatever.
Jan 23, 2023, 10:39:49 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Why tell him to message me at all? Technically today is a school day. Like wth
Jan 23, 2023, 10:41:08 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
And he's still blowing me up
Jan 23, 2023, 10:43:25 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I'm not his taxi.
Jan 23, 2023, 1:08:20 PM
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Me:
Yeah, of course. Thanks.
Jan 23, 2023, 1:09:11 PM
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Cassie:
What?
Jan 23, 2023, 1:59:56 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
What happened to that shake stuff?
Jan 23, 2023, 2:08:09 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Fuck if I know
Jan 23, 2023, 2:08:46 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
It was in the pantry
Jan 23, 2023, 2:09:16 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I don't know. I haven't touched it
Jan 23, 2023, 2:11:23 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
It was that bag of shake mix
Jan 23, 2023, 2:15:57 PM
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Cassie:
I think you threw it away
Jan 23, 2023, 2:23:17 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Uh, no.
Jan 23, 2023, 2:23:50 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Is she trying to say she is going to hold Kynsley back ?
Jan 23, 2023, 2:24:56 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Yes
Jan 23, 2023, 2:25:11 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
She has lost her mind.
Jan 23, 2023, 2:25:21 PM
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Cassie:
She can not hold a child back if they have passing grades
Jan 23, 2023, 2:25:49 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I'm about to get mad 😡
Jan 23, 2023, 2:26:47 PM
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Me:
Holding a child back is not a punishment.
Jan 23, 2023, 2:27:46 PM
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Cassie:
It would be to Kynsley
Jan 23, 2023, 2:28:10 PM
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Me:
Thanks for just taking my laptop.
Jan 23, 2023, 2:28:18 PM
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Cassie:
I'm not in agreement with this
Jan 23, 2023, 2:28:33 PM
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Me:
Then she needs to stop spending so much time at Avas and on YouTube.
Jan 23, 2023, 2:58:37 PM
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Me:
I guess I'm going to get ready to go to the courthouse
Jan 23, 2023, 2:59:03 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Alright whatever
Jan 23, 2023, 3:01:08 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
It's not like you're trying to stay together. The divorce is still proceeding, and we are still constantly fighting.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:02:12 PM
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Cassie:
You cannot even discuss with me Kynsley struggling .
Jan 23, 2023, 3:03:01 PM
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Me:
Because you're starting an argument!
Jan 23, 2023, 3:04:04 PM
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Cassie:
I'm going to have her tested . I don't think not comprehending is a reason to hold someone back. I don't comprehend a lot.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:05:29 PM
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Me:
Of course, just disregard my opinion.
Whatever. It can't hurt, I guess.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:06:03 PM
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Cassie:
Do you think Kynsley would handle being in same grade as her younger sister next year?
Jan 23, 2023, 3:08:22 PM
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Me:
That should not be part of the determination. What's best for her education should be.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:09:49 PM
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Cassie:
Yeah holding a child back can be emotionally demeaning. So have to think of that also. I don't want to hold her back. She hates school because she tells me no one in class likes her and she doesn't have any friends. No one invites her to birthday parties .
Jan 23, 2023, 3:10:40 PM
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Me:
So, what is the advantage of keeping her with those kids?!
Jan 23, 2023, 3:11:00 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
She doesn't even want to go back to school .
Jan 23, 2023, 3:11:18 PM
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Cassie:
I can feel you are okay with holding her back
Jan 23, 2023, 3:12:25 PM
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Me:
Not necessarily. If it's what is best for her, then yes. I'm not saying she needs to be. Hell, we don't even know much about the situation!
Jan 23, 2023, 3:12:41 PM
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Me:
Uh, are you going to get them??
Jan 23, 2023, 3:12:48 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Yes
Jan 23, 2023, 3:13:03 PM
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Cassie:
Well would you go to a meeting at the school so we both know.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:13:06 PM
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Me:
Could've warmed the van up
Jan 23, 2023, 3:13:25 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
And who is going to watch the kids?!
Jan 23, 2023, 3:14:03 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Not today a different day. Like during the school day
Jan 23, 2023, 3:14:23 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I didn't figure today. I guess
Jan 23, 2023, 3:18:17 PM
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Me:
Alright well, I need to finish this fucking paperwork and get ready to go.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:26:36 PM
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Cassie:
The teacher called me.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:27:02 PM
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Cassie:
So I guess you really are going to go forward. Great
Jan 23, 2023, 3:29:22 PM
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Cassie:
Bye.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:29:55 PM
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Me:
This isn't getting better. I'm depressed as fuck and you don't care.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:30:25 PM
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Cassie:
You go don't talk to me
Jan 23, 2023, 3:30:34 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I'll deal with all the other stuff on my own. Bye
Jan 23, 2023, 3:31:08 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright. Bye.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:31:51 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Because you don't care. Just bye.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:36:14 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Yeah, alright. I mean, look at the fight last night. Similar situations, yes. But not the same. And you just had to do it.
Also, you didn't have school or anything today yet I was able to do 3+ loads of laundry
Jan 23, 2023, 3:37:09 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I hate you right now. It was the same exact situation. But you will say not exactly because you don't want to be wrong.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:38:28 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
It was not! I was waiting on you, were you waiting on me??
Jan 23, 2023, 3:38:56 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
You did the exact same thing . You picked him up and took him over there and hung out.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:39:04 PM
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Cassie:
I took her home and didn't get out of my car
Jan 23, 2023, 3:39:11 PM
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Me:
WERE YOU WAITING ON ME
Jan 23, 2023, 3:39:29 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
No. You were not.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:39:45 PM
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Cassie:
K. You are always in the right.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:40:08 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I didn't say that. But you always oversimplify the situations to match what you want.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:40:36 PM
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Cassie:
You still stayed over there when you said you had to pee. Took you forever to even get over there.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:40:39 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Whatever. Bye.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:40:49 PM
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Cassie:
You did it on purpose to make me mad .
Jan 23, 2023, 3:41:02 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
God fucking dammit. No I fucking did not.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:41:21 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Fuck this. Blocked. I don't care what you have to say. It's not fucking worth it.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:41:31 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Just go file your papers. Make sure you go over there and hang out too
Jan 23, 2023, 3:41:44 PM
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Cassie:
Like you always do. But bitch at me for doing the same.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:42:25 PM
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Cassie:
Did exact same but not get out of my car and you throw a fit. But you went over there and hung out for over an hour. But I'm wrong for saying something
Jan 23, 2023, 3:42:41 PM
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Cassie:
. You don't do anything wrong and you did it to piss me off because you did it to me
Jan 23, 2023, 3:43:47 PM
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Cassie:
You don't care that you did that that to me and I didn't even do anything like you did!!!
Jan 23, 2023, 3:43:59 PM
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Cassie:
I'm always blocked because you don't like being told you were wrong
Jan 23, 2023, 3:47:26 PM
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Cassie:
Go run over there to him. But ask
Jan 23, 2023, 3:48:04 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Tell him to ask me to run him places. Not my damn problem
Jan 23, 2023, 3:53:31 PM
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Cassie:
Since you want to stay over there you can go live over there.
Jan 23, 2023, 3:58:48 PM
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Cassie:
You don't even like me at all.
Jan 23, 2023, 4:01:27 PM
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Cassie:
Guess you left. Bye
Jan 23, 2023, 4:36:26 PM
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Me:
Yeah, don't even bother coming back in here.
That was pretty fucked up. You didn't even bother plugging sawyers in until I said something. Its not very fair to K.
Jan 23, 2023, 4:39:30 PM
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Cassie:
Uh I told fylix yo do that over na hour ago
Jan 23, 2023, 4:40:03 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I hav e literally been trying to work with her in the bedroom alone. I told him to plug in both dead iPads as a matter of fact
Jan 23, 2023, 4:41:05 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
But did you make sure he did it? Probably not.
Tell Ricky to lose his fucking attitude
Jan 23, 2023, 4:41:31 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
He's acting like he's Kynsley boss and shit and I already told him to stop
Jan 23, 2023, 4:41:46 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
He got the iPads and took them
Yo kitchen.
Jan 23, 2023, 4:41:57 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Then take the fucking phone
Jan 23, 2023, 4:42:00 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
So no I didn't check.
But I think
Jan 23, 2023, 4:42:25 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I am as soon as I come back inside .
Jan 23, 2023, 4:42:41 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
If I have to go deal with him, I am.fojnf to smash it
Jan 23, 2023, 4:47:53 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Ricky is still in the corner
Jan 23, 2023, 4:48:37 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Yeah he has 6 more minutes
Jan 23, 2023, 4:49:23 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I really feel like a failure as a parent, right now.
Jan 23, 2023, 4:51:00 PM
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Cassie:
When you get finished Alayna needs you to help her with how many drawers are in your room
Jan 23, 2023, 4:52:18 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Uh, okay. I hope you know fylix is outside
Jan 23, 2023, 4:52:48 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Again??
Jan 23, 2023, 4:53:17 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
This is why
Jan 23, 2023, 4:53:53 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
So she wants to count all the drawers
Jan 23, 2023, 4:57:41 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I only have the ones in my dad's desk
Jan 23, 2023, 5:08:20 PM
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Cassie:
Well she wants you to help her
Jan 23, 2023, 5:10:00 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
For all the drawers in the house
Jan 23, 2023, 5:28:09 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Ricky is not allowed to cook or make anything in the kitchen without asking you or I first. I'm tired of shit being left out because he's lazy. It's a fucking waste
Jan 23, 2023, 5:30:50 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Okay.
Is he actually doing laundry
Jan 23, 2023, 5:30:59 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Alayna is not trying she thinks it's funny.
Jan 23, 2023, 5:31:38 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
No, they are in their room.
Jan 23, 2023, 5:31:53 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Give her a break from it. I bet she's tired and that's why it's funny
Jan 23, 2023, 5:33:00 PM
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Cassie:
Omg that is not what I told them to do
Jan 23, 2023, 5:34:47 PM
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Me:
You should check out my pulley setup
Jan 23, 2023, 5:36:59 PM
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Cassie:
I'm coming
Jan 23, 2023, 5:46:02 PM
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Cassie:
I hate feeling like you make me feel like I don't do anything .
Jan 23, 2023, 5:48:47 PM
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Me:
I didn't fucking say that!!!!! And never fucking have!!!!! Its not fair that I worked all day and did 4 or more loads of laundry, dishes, and made fucking breakfast! It's not fucking fair!!!!!
Jan 23, 2023, 5:49:13 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
fuck this!! Leave me the fuck alone!! I can't fucking do it!
Jan 23, 2023, 5:51:05 PM
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Cassie:
I did dishes last night after I got in . So you wouldn't have to. And I have also been dealing Sawyer snd Kynsley and Alayna school stuff this evening.
Jan 23, 2023, 5:53:28 PM
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Cassie:
I get no credit for trying or doing anything .
Jan 23, 2023, 6:02:55 PM
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Cassie:
I really do think you actually hate my guts
Jan 23, 2023, 6:20:35 PM
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Cassie:
Are you busy ?
Jan 23, 2023, 6:21:37 PM
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Me:
What.
Jan 23, 2023, 6:23:27 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
??
Jan 23, 2023, 7:38:06 PM
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Cassie:
Don't repeat what I told you. Please
Jan 23, 2023, 7:39:08 PM
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Me:
We need to treat the kids hair. K is scratching. I am as well.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:39:37 PM
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Cassie:
Ugh I am so sick of this lice shit.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:40:15 PM
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Me:
Yeah, but that's why we have to stay on top of it. Every fucking day for a few weeks
Jan 23, 2023, 7:40:42 PM
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Cassie:
But don't repeat what I told you please
Jan 23, 2023, 7:41:23 PM
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Cassie:
It's annoying. I can't stand it
Jan 23, 2023, 7:42:36 PM
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Me:
Yeah, I got it.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:42:41 PM
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Me:
I don't like it either
Jan 23, 2023, 7:43:22 PM
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Cassie:
I'm going to need more lice stuffZ
Jan 23, 2023, 7:43:24 PM
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Cassie:
Stuff
Jan 23, 2023, 7:45:01 PM
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Me:
We need to use pillow sheets and we need to wash shit frequently. And put shit away.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:51:22 PM
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Me:
I'm fucking tired. I meant pillow cases.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:52:41 PM
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Cassie:
I know. This shit sucked the last time and it was 3 years ago when we had to deal with it for months .
Jan 23, 2023, 7:53:29 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
But if we are consistent and don't take a break, if won't be that long.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:54:33 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Ugh. I think I need to get my car in the garage. I think it's leaking coolant
Jan 23, 2023, 7:55:37 PM
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Cassie:
Oh great
Jan 23, 2023, 7:55:37 PM
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Cassie:
I think I am going to start getting rid of stuff or put stuff away for a yard sale or something. We have too much . So, I think come spring I am going to do that or join a community yard sale.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:56:20 PM
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Me:
Like what
Jan 23, 2023, 7:57:29 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Clothes , toys, car seats, maybe blankets whatever we can get rid of .
Jan 23, 2023, 7:58:10 PM
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Me:
Personally, I like donating it so that someone who needs it more than we do can use it.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:58:20 PM
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Cassie:
Maybe that pool my dad got the kids because it's not going to get put up. We say we will be we don't
Jan 23, 2023, 7:58:56 PM
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Me:
I spent a ton of time in the pool area...
Jan 23, 2023, 7:59:13 PM
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Cassie:
It's not even a big enough pool. It's small.
Jan 23, 2023, 7:59:41 PM
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Me:
It's better than nothing
Jan 23, 2023, 8:01:40 PM
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Cassie:
Yeah. I just wanted a big pool not a small one that comes up to my knee caps
Jan 23, 2023, 8:03:12 PM
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Me:
I understand. It's just not cheap and it sucks that I put time in and then the kids and dogs fuck it up
Jan 23, 2023, 8:04:20 PM
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Cassie:
I like the size of Anita and Russ pool
Jan 23, 2023, 8:04:28 PM
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Cassie:
But I know we can't get that big
Jan 23, 2023, 8:05:42 PM
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Cassie:
But I also don't want a chlorine pool I want a salt water pool. I don't like burning my eye balls
Jan 23, 2023, 8:05:55 PM
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Cassie:
And it's terrible for your skin chlorine is.
Jan 23, 2023, 8:34:24 PM
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Me:
I agree. That's why Ive kept the pump
Jan 23, 2023, 8:36:03 PM
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Me:
And why I busted my ass out there in the fucking heat to try to get it ready
Jan 23, 2023, 8:40:31 PM
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Cassie:
When you get back I'm leaving. I'm done with all the kids being rude and disrespectful to me.
Jan 23, 2023, 8:42:34 PM
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Me:
Great.
Jan 23, 2023, 8:52:27 PM
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Cassie:
3 can't even eat my food. Want to back talk to me , roll their eyes, keep arguing with me . I am done.
Jan 23, 2023, 8:52:49 PM
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Cassie:
I'm such an awful person but I'm the one who does pretty much everything.
Jan 23, 2023, 8:52:59 PM
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Me:
Here we go.
Jan 23, 2023, 8:54:24 PM
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Cassie:
That's what they said
Jan 23, 2023, 10:10:16 PM
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Me:
What is he doing??
Jan 23, 2023, 10:16:50 PM
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Cassie:
I have no idea he won't come to bed and I read the girls a. Book
Jan 23, 2023, 10:21:46 PM
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Cassie:
I cannot fall asleep. I have shit I need to do like getting my stuff ready etc.
Jan 23, 2023, 10:23:31 PM
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Cassie:
The girls want to know if you will pick them from school
Jan 23, 2023, 10:24:20 PM
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Me:
I have to work... Why do they want me to get them from school??
Jan 23, 2023, 10:25:33 PM
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Cassie:
I don't know . They just asked me to have you do parent pick up after school tomorrow.
Jan 23, 2023, 10:26:18 PM
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Me:
I can't.
Jan 23, 2023, 10:26:40 PM
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Cassie:
Okay
Jan 23, 2023, 10:31:13 PM
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Cassie:
What is that noise ?
Jan 23, 2023, 10:33:38 PM
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Me:
I hate when you do that. I need specifics
Jan 23, 2023, 10:35:10 PM
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Cassie:
Sounds like a handsaw
Jan 23, 2023, 10:37:12 PM
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Me:
I have no idea
Jan 23, 2023, 10:38:43 PM
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Cassie:
I really do want to stop yelling. I just don't know how to break it
Jan 23, 2023, 10:39:03 PM
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Cassie:
I did apologize to the kids and they apologized to me first .
Jan 23, 2023, 10:39:45 PM
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Me:
Breath and think instead of instantly reacting. Why do you think I walk away? If I don't, I will get mad and yell.
Jan 23, 2023, 10:40:19 PM
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Cassie:
Nobody listens to me when I talk calm or nice.
Jan 23, 2023, 10:40:29 PM
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Cassie:
That's what sucks.
Jan 23, 2023, 10:40:50 PM
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Me:
I understand. but again, you can get stern without yelling.
Jan 23, 2023, 10:42:30 PM
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Cassie:
And then what if still not listening? Just ignore it .
Jan 23, 2023, 10:43:16 PM
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Me:
I wouldn't ignore it but thats up to you. Maybe you need to break something of theirs one time.
Jan 23, 2023, 10:48:40 PM
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Cassie:
Maybe I need. Week long vacation to see if they actually appreciate me and just be different kids when I come back
Jan 23, 2023, 10:49:02 PM
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Me:
Of course that's what you think you need
Jan 23, 2023, 10:49:21 PM
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Cassie:
Yeah. I really do.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:00:34 PM
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Cassie:
I'm going to have a time getting him up in the morning
Jan 23, 2023, 11:00:44 PM
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Me:
Yes
Jan 23, 2023, 11:04:13 PM
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Cassie:
I'm going back to just smoking weed. I feel like I was a lot nicer.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:16:17 PM
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Me:
Okay
Jan 23, 2023, 11:17:14 PM
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Cassie:
Or maybe I was nicer not doing anything and being sober
Jan 23, 2023, 11:18:40 PM
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Me:
I don't know. The one thing I can say is that we have a hearing in 3 weeks. I am not getting fucked over again. I cannot keep doing these silly fights
Jan 23, 2023, 11:19:11 PM
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Cassie:
What do you mean getting fucked over
Jan 23, 2023, 11:20:06 PM
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Me:
Um, $600 a month in spousal support but I still pay for vehicle insurance, most of the groceries, etc.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:21:35 PM
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Cassie:
What you plan to do is screw me over if this goes through
Jan 23, 2023, 11:22:00 PM
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Me:
Here we fucking go. God fucking dammit. Always to the extreme.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:23:36 PM
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Me:
If you can't take care of the kids and live off of $2400/month and not having to work, there is a problem.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:25:20 PM
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Cassie:
Not when the house is 1400 a month. Utilities over 1000 so where would I afford groceries , daycare , gas anything besides utilities and mortgage .
Jan 23, 2023, 11:25:50 PM
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Me:
And why would you have to pay for the house?!
Jan 23, 2023, 11:26:08 PM
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Cassie:
Just forget it
Jan 23, 2023, 11:26:25 PM
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Me:
You want to buy it?!
Jan 23, 2023, 11:27:02 PM
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Cassie:
Make him go to bed. I'm tired of fighting with him
Jan 23, 2023, 11:27:49 PM
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Cassie:
If I continue to live here I'm sure I will have to pay for it
Jan 23, 2023, 11:28:21 PM
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Me:
And I should have to? I should have to pay for the house where my ex wife lives?
Jan 23, 2023, 11:29:38 PM
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Cassie:
Yeah because you know I can't afford it . And even with that money I still wouldn't be able to afford it. You clearly don't know how this works .
Jan 23, 2023, 11:29:59 PM
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Me:
Okay, so explain it to me
Jan 23, 2023, 11:35:07 PM
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Cassie:
I have no job and 5 kids. They are more than likely not going to make me move when I cannot even find a damn place for all the kids.
And that money you give me is. It isn't going to sustain this house.
Or be able to even afford food .
Being married for this long, I am able to have half of every. There are men out there still paying for their ex wives house because they have children and paying spousal support. You think I shouldn't be allowed anything.
And you know going from income to provide to not being able to provide the judge is not going to make me homeless with 5 children and starve. That's not how any of that works.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:36:01 PM
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Me:
Okay.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:36:50 PM
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Cassie:
I know you plan on making him evict me, make me use the money you have to pay to pay for the house. And then starve. So awesome
Jan 23, 2023, 11:37:15 PM
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Me:
You are ridiculous. God fucking dammit.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:37:27 PM
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Me:
I'll just talk to you another time. Always acting like I'm a fucking monster
Jan 23, 2023, 11:37:54 PM
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Cassie:
How am I acting ridiculous when you just stated you won't be getting fucked over again.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:38:30 PM
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Cassie:
And you brought up paying money and for the house? So how is that being ridiculous
Jan 23, 2023, 11:38:45 PM
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Me:
I said exactly what. And you went way over here.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:39:16 PM
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Cassie:
I'm also not stupid
Jan 23, 2023, 11:39:38 PM
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Me:
I don't want to pay for a house that you are living in. I don't think that's fair or reasonable. You blew the money I've paid you so far, that's not my fault.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:39:42 PM
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Me:
Never said you were.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:39:57 PM
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Me:
Yeah, I'm stopping. This isnt going to help anything.
Jan 23, 2023, 11:40:47 PM
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Cassie:
Yeah well that's what is going to happen, because yeah you rather me use money you pay to pay for it and it's not even enough to pay for this house. Or pay anything else
Jan 23, 2023, 11:42:29 PM
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Cassie:
It's not reasonable for your kids to have a home or me to have a home? Really I can go after half of everything. And that's what you don't realize .
Jan 23, 2023, 11:44:11 PM
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Cassie:
So we should go be homeless because you don't think it's fair for us to have a place to live . Got it.
Jan 24, 2023, 1:11:36 AM
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Cassie:
I'm
Going to go lay down
Jan 24, 2023, 1:12:07 AM
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Me:
Okay. Good night
Jan 24, 2023, 1:12:52 AM
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Cassie:
I'm going to your bed
Jan 24, 2023, 1:13:13 AM
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Me:
Okay.
Jan 24, 2023, 1:14:41 AM
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Cassie:
You can come lay with me
Jan 24, 2023, 1:15:37 AM
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Me:
I might soon.
Jan 24, 2023, 1:15:59 AM
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Cassie:
My legs and back hurt
Jan 24, 2023, 1:21:42 AM
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Cassie:
I don't have any pants on
Jan 24, 2023, 1:21:54 AM
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Cassie:
I'm sleeping in your bed with no pants
Jan 24, 2023, 1:31:43 AM
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Me:
Okay. I will probably be in bed soon. I'm tired.
Jan 24, 2023, 1:39:23 AM
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Cassie:
Hurry
Jan 24, 2023, 1:44:47 AM
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Me:
Oh my.
Jan 24, 2023, 1:45:50 AM
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Cassie:
What's that ?
Jan 24, 2023, 1:49:19 AM
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Me:
You just want to have sex.
Jan 24, 2023, 1:49:28 AM
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Me:
I'm tired so I'll be up in a second.
Jan 24, 2023, 1:52:17 AM
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Me:
Peeing, washing my hands, and I'll be up
Jan 24, 2023, 1:54:43 AM
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Me:
Stahp. I'm not even in the mood for that. I think we just need to get some restn