Dec 11, 2022, 4:03:37 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I hope this fucking engine lands on my chest
Dec 11, 2022, 5:37:59 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
You probably don't even know why I got pissed off about this, to begin with.
Dec 11, 2022, 6:08:21 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I don't know why I even asked. I know you're asleep but you wouldn't be able to answer anyways.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:43:23 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright. I guess I'll talk to you tomorrow.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:43:58 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I'm getting ready to head to the house.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:45:11 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Great
Dec 11, 2022, 10:45:47 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Why?
Dec 11, 2022, 10:48:44 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I mean, you needed adjustments yesterday.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:49:44 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
So I guess I'm not allowed there. Awesome
Dec 11, 2022, 10:51:58 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
It's your house
Dec 11, 2022, 10:54:26 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I also never implied that you couldn't be here.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:54:33 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
You made it clear last night and this morning you didn't really want me there
Dec 11, 2022, 10:55:28 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I wonder why.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:56:22 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
You chose to hang out with a woman you see most days of the week and that you want to fuck, instead of hanging out with me.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:57:44 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Omg . I joke with her about that. I guess I'll come and gets showers and leave . Because that is ridiculous .
Dec 11, 2022, 10:58:21 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Uh, you've told me straight up you did.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:58:56 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
It was a fucking joke.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:59:21 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
You are so full of shit. Either way, that's not really the issue.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:00:55 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
We have never done anything I've never even tried.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:01:17 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I believe you. And like I said, that's not really the issue
Dec 11, 2022, 11:04:33 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
It doesn't matter. It's never mattered what I think. Do whatever the fuck it is you want to do. You do anyways.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:10:28 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright. Happy fucking anniversary!
Dec 11, 2022, 11:10:50 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Happy anniversary.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:11:55 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Yeah. So much for happy.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:13:52 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Hell, I didn't even get dinner last night. Yeah, my fault, I know. Just not worth it to make a one person meal.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:18:00 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright. Back to my car. TTYL
Dec 11, 2022, 11:46:44 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
You know what, I don't care what you do today. Just leave me alone please. I don't want food or anything. I'll figure out my own shit. Have a good day.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:49:36 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Why are you wanting to argue and fight all day.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:51:21 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
No, I don't. And that's why I said have a good day. You needed time to make adjustments yesterday so take some more time.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:51:39 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I have to come back.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:52:12 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Of course. I didn't say anything about that. Doesn't mean we have to interact. I'll give you space.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:57:04 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Cool. Just giving you what you wanted.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:57:36 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I am doing all this arguing and fighting today
Dec 11, 2022, 11:57:58 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I was going to make steak dinner and all that . But I guess that's not happening.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:58:33 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright. I guess none of this is your fault. Sweet. Bye.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:58:55 AM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I was going to get the white table out and put candles on it. But never mind now
Dec 11, 2022, 11:59:59 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
After you said you needed "adjustments" to hang out with me? Yeah fucking right.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:00:36 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Yeah I said I had big plans today. But you kept saying all the stuff you been saying
Dec 11, 2022, 12:01:19 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Yeah, alright. I guess it's my fault you just decided to stay at Jesse's before even asking me how I felt about it.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:01:37 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
It doesn't matter. She will always be more important than me.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:01:49 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I'll stop. See you later
Dec 11, 2022, 12:01:53 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
So I need to ask permission to go places or do anything ?
Dec 11, 2022, 12:04:06 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Permission? Is that what I said??
Dec 11, 2022, 12:04:41 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
This is why we can't be partners.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:04:57 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
You said I needed to ask you
Dec 11, 2022, 12:05:44 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
No, I did not.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:06:37 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
But of course that's how you took it. You never ask me how I feel about anything. You do whatever you want. But I almost always ask you before I do something.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:06:57 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Oh that's right. I'm the bitch.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:09:58 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Just do whatever. I'll be here working on my car. If I don't get it going soon, I'm getting another car.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:10:17 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Must be nice
Dec 11, 2022, 12:10:38 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
You could've saved money. You chose not to.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:10:59 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
No must be nice you're able to get a new vehicle.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:12:32 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I didn't say new.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:12:49 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I mean, I bought the van and my name isn't even on it.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:12:49 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
And I'm not a dumb ass either
Dec 11, 2022, 12:13:32 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Me either.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:13:57 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Yeah and you have bought houses and my name hasn't been on them either
Dec 11, 2022, 12:14:00 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Apparently names on titles doesn't matter. You have custody of the house.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:14:09 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
It's yours.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:14:21 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Even when you were working, you didn't pay a single bill.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:14:28 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Yeah by a court order.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:14:44 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
You never even wanted to put me on the houses
Dec 11, 2022, 12:15:28 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Yeah, we've discussed this.
Couldn't pay a bill but have Kevin money. Good call.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:16:23 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
No you did it twice. You didn't even attempt to have me put on there
Dec 11, 2022, 12:16:40 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
You have bad credit and you keep making it worse.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:17:45 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Way to dodge that statement.
Why does your name need to be on it, if the courts can just give it to you anyways? I still have to fucking pay.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:18:08 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Yeah thanks. You just wanted it to be yours. That's why you did it.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:19:34 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
No, I've made it clear why. But of course you'll use another excuse.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:20:41 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Yeah you chose to do that.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:20:49 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I even said I would consider refinancing this spring and put your name on the deed then. But that's not good enough.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:21:06 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Yeah I know better .
Dec 11, 2022, 12:21:15 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Just forget it
Dec 11, 2022, 12:21:37 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Yep. I will. It'll be sold soon anyways.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:24:17 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Yeah okay. I know my name will never be there .
Dec 11, 2022, 12:25:04 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
You've made that choice. I've tried to help you but you ignore me.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:26:07 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
If you would have been there when I got the van your name would have been on there .
Dec 11, 2022, 12:26:42 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Oh, my bad. I didn't think my wife would fuck me over. Again. And again.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:27:10 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
But you never wanted my name on either house.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:28:16 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Omg. How many times do I need to say it?
Dec 11, 2022, 12:29:33 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
It's irrelevant now. I don't even want any fucking property anymore.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:32:17 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
But you didn't you didn't even ask to put me on there
Dec 11, 2022, 12:32:23 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
All of this because you could be bothered to spend some time with me. Thanks.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:32:42 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I am not repeating myself. Been here, done this.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:32:49 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I have other shit to do. Bye.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:38:22 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Last thing: dont worry. Once this house is gone, I will not be buying another one. This has totally not been worth it
Dec 11, 2022, 12:39:21 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
K
Dec 11, 2022, 12:41:45 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I've been a waste of your time
Dec 11, 2022, 12:42:16 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Uh, I've been the one trying. You just don't give a fuck.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:42:54 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I guess 10 years was a waste to your
Dec 11, 2022, 12:43:12 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I have to practically beg you to lay down with me for anything but sex.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:43:42 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
You certainly threw 7 years away awfully quickly.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:46:51 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I'm done arguing. You've made it clear that Jesse is more important than I am. Do whatever you want. I don't care.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:47:14 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
You haven't wanted me in your bed you kept telling me you couldn't sleep with me and wanted your space . You hated sharing a bed
Dec 11, 2022, 12:49:33 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
You made it clear you didn't care about me as the mother of your children by saying your sister was getting my kids
Dec 11, 2022, 12:49:47 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Yeah, there you go.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:49:55 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Good bye. Done with this shit.
Dec 11, 2022, 12:50:12 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Happy fucking anniversary. Go spend it with someone else.
Dec 11, 2022, 1:58:06 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Do you even understand how insulting it is that you need adjustments even though I caught you telling another man you love him?
Dec 11, 2022, 2:00:06 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I am so used to doing everything on my own with the kids and going places with them. That it's just the norm for me. Because you haven't . One time in 3 years you have went swimming
Dec 11, 2022, 2:00:27 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Okay, so no, you don't.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:00:42 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I think I need some fucking time to think about shit.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:03:25 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I mean you stopped sleeping with me 7 years ago. And up until recently you didn't want me in there.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:03:31 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
You don't even care. I have tried and tried. You don't even care. What the fuck am I getting out of this relationship? I have to walk on egg shells to make sure I don't make you flip shit. I have to pay for everything. Most of the time I have to clean -- you have been helping very recently and I appreciate it. I do most of the laundry. I clean the bedrooms.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:03:50 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
That was your fault. And it still is. You still have kids sleeping with you.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:05:56 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
You chose to leave our bed we had together. You slept in the basement then I moved to basement. You moved upstairs .
You have went to 2 different bedrooms in this house
Dec 11, 2022, 2:06:34 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright. I quit.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:06:40 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
You didn't really want to sleep with me when I was pregnant either.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:07:45 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Serious question..:
Why did it take me to file for divorce to realize you needed to spend time with me or that you really loved me?
Not being a smart ass not arguing . I genuinely want to know.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:09:04 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Because I'm the only one who is willing to put effort in. Instead of helping, you filed.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:09:17 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
You told me to!
Dec 11, 2022, 2:09:29 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Because you wouldn't help
Dec 11, 2022, 2:09:32 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
And kept telling me to. For weeks and weeks
Dec 11, 2022, 2:09:58 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Because for weeks and weeks I was doing everything while you were out spending my money fucking off.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:11:10 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
But you didn't want to put effort in before I filed. But after I filed you decided you were about to lose all of us. So you wanted to put effort in. But you're still in your room or garage . It's very depressing knowing you will never be the one to want to do that.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:11:35 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I give up. I don't want to do this anymore. I'm tired of me being the only one to put effort in.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:12:40 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I begged you to go do things with us. And you made up every excuse in the rainbow to not do it.
This needs done. That needs done. I have to do this. I don't feel like it. That's why I stopped fucking asking. The kids did too. Because your answer is always no to everything
Dec 11, 2022, 2:13:01 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Good. Bye. I can't do this anymore.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:13:37 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
See you can point out my shit but I can't point out what started all this. Great talk
Dec 11, 2022, 2:14:25 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Why the kids come ask me to do stuff with them because you always say no
Dec 11, 2022, 2:16:44 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
That doesn't even phase you. But me leaving the house phases you. Your kids begging you to do things with them and instead they always get in busy .
Dec 11, 2022, 2:21:48 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Oh, it has nothing to do with you pointing out shit. I can't do this shit anymore. You fucking cheated on me. And you need time to adjust. Fuck off
Dec 11, 2022, 2:23:17 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I don't want to do this anymore. I shouldn't be competing with Jesse. And I'm done doing so.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:25:31 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
And it's not just Jesse's. You rarely think about me.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:26:25 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
The only reason you were able to go do that shit was because I was here fucking working.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:34:02 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I don't think about you?!! There are times I bend over backwards trying to impress you or do things I know will make you happy.
No I just cook you dinner and 8/10 you don't even it .
You don't eat dinner with us . Nothing . It's very depressing. It's why everyone just does their own thing anymore.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:34:41 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright, I got it. I think it's best we just move on.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:34:48 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I asked on weekends and you would say I have shit to do in the garage.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:36:54 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I don't understand what is so wrong with letting some things go to spend time with your family
Dec 11, 2022, 2:38:25 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
That makes me feel embarrassing to you. The kids will even ask why doesn't will come why does he not ever go anywhere with us . It's insulting to me and the kids that the stupid garage and cleaning is more important than we are.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:38:30 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Yeah, here we go with that. I've told you 1000s of times.
I'm not going to sit here and be told that you fell for a guy and it's my fault, while I was paying for everything and taking care of the house. I can't do it anymore.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:38:53 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
The fucking van is embarrassing to me!
Dec 11, 2022, 2:39:07 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Everytime the fucking doors open up, trash falls out.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:39:33 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Yeah and so are we to you. I've cleaned it out and you still won't get your fucking ass in there
Dec 11, 2022, 2:40:13 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright. I'm done arguing. You chose Jesse over me. You'll get a lot more time with her.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:40:22 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
No all you worry about is the cleanliness of everything. Not about well this can wait and I'll hang out with my family
Dec 11, 2022, 2:40:54 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Yeah shit can wait. You have wasted years over worrying about a stupid clean house thay can be done anytime.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:41:11 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Your room or garage all you god damn care about and all the kids know it.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:42:00 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
They say it everyday . Daddy just going to stay in the garage all day or evening. They don't even ask where you are they go to the garage. That's how fucking sad it is
Dec 11, 2022, 2:42:40 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
You will always blame me but never blame yourself for anything.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:43:16 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Seriously?! I know how to take responsibility. You never do. Never.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:43:26 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Good fucking bye. I'm done with this stupid shit.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:44:16 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I have taken responsibility but every action has a reaction.
So did you think you staying out in garage and not speaking or you know acknowledging our presence wasn't going to have an adverse effect???
Dec 11, 2022, 2:45:01 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
No you didn't because you thought we should just stay here and clean the god damn house and cook. Fuck that shit
Dec 11, 2022, 2:46:02 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
No reason to go anywhere when have to pay for the house and such . Exact words that have came from you multiple times
Dec 11, 2022, 2:48:20 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I didn't even want to talk to you.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:49:06 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Then why keep messaging me until
I finally respond back ?!
Dec 11, 2022, 2:49:48 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I guess the same reason you do it when you're mad. I'm frustrated, mad, hurt. I wanted answers.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:51:02 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
But I don't think I can do this anymore. It's never good enough and I'll never be good enough. But my money sure as hell is good enough to burn.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:51:17 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I don't even know what to do anymore. You don't want me to leave the house. Think I am fucking Jesse
Dec 11, 2022, 2:52:09 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
We only have 1-2 days of good days then back to fighting .
Dec 11, 2022, 2:52:55 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I don't understand.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:53:04 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Yeah, I really don't want to do this anymore.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:54:09 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Just leave me the fuck alone.
Dec 11, 2022, 2:56:41 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Then stop messaging me if you don't want me to respond Wtf
Dec 11, 2022, 3:00:31 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Okay. This is the last thing I have to say, and I'm blocking you:
You have completely fucked me up. I know I've made my mistakes but you don't even try. You don't give a shit. All you care about is spending money. I've given you more money than anyone else you'll find. It's never enough. You still burn more. I don't want this anymore. I am tired of being treated like I'm the only one who makes mistakes. I'm tired of having to do most of the cleaning. I'm tired of having to pay for everyone, while all of you disrespect me.
Dec 11, 2022, 4:01:57 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Since you apparently won't read my emails. Sawyer was in my room. Luckily he didn't get into that line you have sitting in the drawer, not covered or anything. And back to blocked.
Dec 11, 2022, 4:08:58 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I told you I am
Not communicating via email
Dec 11, 2022, 4:17:08 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Then we're not communicating.
Dec 11, 2022, 5:57:56 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Thanks for all of this. Its good to know where I really stand. I wish you would've just been honest a long time ago.
Dec 11, 2022, 5:58:50 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I'm so glad you just wanted to fight today
Dec 11, 2022, 6:00:14 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
You couldnt even hang out with me...
Dec 11, 2022, 6:00:48 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
How would you fucking feel if I said I needed to get used to hanging out with you again?
Dec 11, 2022, 6:01:17 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
How would you feel if I left you, alone, and went and stayed the night with someone I see most days?!
Dec 11, 2022, 6:01:49 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
But, you're right, I just wanted to fight. You don't give a shit about how I feel about any damn thing
Dec 11, 2022, 6:06:04 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright. Don't forget about Alayna. She needs dinner too.
Dec 11, 2022, 6:10:55 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
You literally have been fighting with me all day . I didn't want this today . I had plans with you a date in the living room . But nope
Dec 11, 2022, 6:12:42 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
And you didn't even bother answering either of my questions.
You fucking left me. Again. I am tired of being on my fucking own. I guess I should be used to it.
Dec 11, 2022, 6:13:38 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
You complain about having no friends and such but you do. I have no. Fucking. Friends.
Dec 11, 2022, 6:13:55 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I'll just leave you alone.
Dec 11, 2022, 6:14:29 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
No I would feel like shit if you did that probably worse mad .
Dec 11, 2022, 6:15:34 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I don't even care anymore. Youve made your position clear. I'll get used to being on my own.
Dec 11, 2022, 6:21:54 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
For someone who is supposed to be my partner, you have no problem hurting me. I really don't know if I can keep doing this. You constantly hurt me, and you will fucking double down before you stop. It fucking blows. I don't do this to you.
Dec 11, 2022, 6:33:28 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Alright. I'll just talk to you another time.
Dec 11, 2022, 6:38:28 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
I don't want to hurt you. Do you think if we lived separately we could fix this ? Or try for a month ? Like I don't know what else to do
Dec 11, 2022, 6:40:12 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Honestly, I think it's too late. I think you've separated yourself from me too much. You've made me out to be your enemy.
Dec 11, 2022, 6:44:05 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I guess give me a few weeks and I'll try to leave. I want to buy Christmas presents for the kids. They've suffered through our shit long enough. Early in the new year, Ill try to move.
Dec 11, 2022, 6:46:52 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Why would you leave ?
Dec 11, 2022, 6:47:37 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
It doesn't seem like we are working out. You have custody of the children and you guys need somewhere to live.
Dec 11, 2022, 6:53:01 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Just text me when you can actually pay attention.
Dec 11, 2022, 7:28:24 PM
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Me:
Awesome.
Dec 11, 2022, 7:31:17 PM
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Cassie:
The game just ended . Ricky made a shot most nobody can make .
Dec 11, 2022, 7:31:25 PM
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Cassie:
He scored a few 3 points
Dec 11, 2022, 7:33:06 PM
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Me:
Awesome
Dec 11, 2022, 7:41:44 PM
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Me:
Your room has been cleaned. Your sheets and comforter is in the washer.
Dec 11, 2022, 7:42:09 PM
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Cassie:
They were clean but thank you
Dec 11, 2022, 7:44:06 PM
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Me:
God damn. You couldn't just leave it at thank you?!
Dec 11, 2022, 7:45:20 PM
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Me:
This is EXACTLY what I was saying. You are too far away from me. Youre not going to come back.
Dec 11, 2022, 7:46:20 PM
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Cassie:
I'm on my way back now
Dec 11, 2022, 7:47:05 PM
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Me:
That's not what I mean
Dec 11, 2022, 7:48:53 PM
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Cassie:
Then what do you mean?
Dec 11, 2022, 7:49:25 PM
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Me:
You're hateful to me just to be. You look at me like your enemy. I don't think that's going to change any time soon.
Dec 11, 2022, 7:50:55 PM
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Me:
Before the game, you still couldn't be bothered to send a text that would've taken maybe 10 seconds: "game starting. Talking to you in a bit"
Dec 11, 2022, 7:51:07 PM
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Me:
Talk to you*
Dec 11, 2022, 7:52:50 PM
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Cassie:
I won't lie I do resent you for just staying out in garage and you mentally and physically checked out on us even though we were in same house. I tried to talk to you hang out with you. Be there for you. So yeah I caused some fights only way I could get your attention
Dec 11, 2022, 7:53:34 PM
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Me:
And now you are doing the same to me. But somewhat worse because at least you had a friend to go see.
Dec 11, 2022, 7:54:14 PM
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Cassie:
Only time you would even speak to me . Go out for your birthday and you get so mad over a damn burger .
Dec 11, 2022, 7:55:01 PM
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Cassie:
So excuse me for being butthurt to one person used to always talk to me
Dec 11, 2022, 7:55:37 PM
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Me:
And now you don't talk to me.
Excuse me for wanting to have a dinner with my wife.
Dec 11, 2022, 7:56:15 PM
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Cassie:
And this last year we both started doing shit .... and sometimes I think that's another problem we have
Dec 11, 2022, 7:57:38 PM
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Cassie:
You were all I had for 5 years I had no one to talk to hang out with. I mean we moved to culpeper and Scott and them even stopped really coming around
Dec 11, 2022, 7:58:19 PM
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Me:
This is another problem: you never address what I say unless I push it. You only want me to focus on what you say. I rarely get a say in things unless it involves money.
Dec 11, 2022, 7:59:12 PM
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Cassie:
Doing shit as in ... STUFF
Dec 11, 2022, 7:59:59 PM
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Me:
I understand
Dec 11, 2022, 8:00:25 PM
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Cassie:
I asked you to go marriage feeling with me : I think we need help!!
Dec 11, 2022, 8:00:30 PM
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Cassie:
Counselor
Dec 11, 2022, 8:00:45 PM
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Me:
You still won't address anything I said.
Dec 11, 2022, 8:00:57 PM
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Cassie:
Counseling -
Dec 11, 2022, 8:02:42 PM
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Cassie:
No you get a say in stuff. I'm not even allowed to have money. I have to ask. I do try to talk to you : and I have been. We have had some conversations long ones just conversing
Dec 11, 2022, 8:03:27 PM
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Me:
I do not get a say. Name one thing you discussed with me and respected my opinion.
Dec 11, 2022, 8:03:45 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Yeah, we do talk occasionally. But you don't communicate. It's not the same thing.
Dec 11, 2022, 8:04:56 PM
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Cassie:
And I also got burnt out on cooking. I'm still struggling to make good dinners,
You do what you want in garage. I tell you to go places and go do stuff . I don't ever tell you no about buying things or whatever.
Dec 11, 2022, 8:05:18 PM
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Me:
But I do try to discuss it with you.
Dec 11, 2022, 8:05:25 PM
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Me:
I try to get you involved in my decisions.
Dec 11, 2022, 8:05:55 PM
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Me:
And I have been trying to help cook. My car is broke down and I would really like to get it fixed
Dec 11, 2022, 8:06:00 PM
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Cassie:
But I never say no I say do what you want. Or I don't care .
Dec 11, 2022, 8:06:30 PM
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Cassie:
Even expensive purchases and I have never said no
Dec 11, 2022, 8:11:39 PM
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Me:
Do you have a lighter
Dec 11, 2022, 8:12:10 PM
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Cassie:
Yes
Dec 11, 2022, 10:33:37 PM
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Cassie:
I hate bed time .
Dec 11, 2022, 10:34:33 PM
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Me:
Wtf is going on
Dec 11, 2022, 10:36:33 PM
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Cassie:
Sawyer jumping . Alayna standing on her bed talking to Kynsley
Dec 11, 2022, 10:37:02 PM
Eastern Time:
Cassie:
Kynsley saying she going to punch Alayna and Alayna saying same shit
Dec 11, 2022, 10:40:12 PM
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Me:
Your scrubs are not in the dryer. I'm looking for them.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:42:31 PM
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Cassie:
Oh boy
Dec 11, 2022, 10:44:22 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
In the washer.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:44:52 PM
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Cassie:
Where were they?
Dec 11, 2022, 10:45:10 PM
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Me:
In the laundry room but there is a bunch of laundry in there from your room.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:45:28 PM
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Cassie:
Great
Dec 11, 2022, 10:45:54 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Okay. You're welcome
Dec 11, 2022, 10:47:23 PM
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Cassie:
Thanks
Dec 11, 2022, 10:48:19 PM
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Cassie:
Omg I am done with this
Dec 11, 2022, 10:52:02 PM
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Me:
I've done my part tonight. I've tried.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:52:09 PM
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Me:
Dishes started.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:52:40 PM
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Me:
I'll make sure your stuff makes it to the dryer.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:52:59 PM
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Cassie:
Now she doesn't want to sleep on bunk bed. And won't stop whining and crying .
Dec 11, 2022, 10:53:28 PM
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Me:
I think she's overly tired. I thought she was going to nap earlier. I fell asleep sitting next to her for like 2 minutes
Dec 11, 2022, 10:53:39 PM
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Cassie:
And she's in my bed whining and crying
Dec 11, 2022, 10:55:28 PM
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Cassie:
And I need to pee. Ugh
Dec 11, 2022, 10:56:24 PM
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Cassie:
I can't fucking do it.
Dec 11, 2022, 10:58:26 PM
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Me:
Those glasses Ava brought down are in the junk cabinet, top shelf, closest to spices
Dec 11, 2022, 10:58:51 PM
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Cassie:
Okay thanks
Dec 11, 2022, 10:59:32 PM
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Cassie:
They need to go to sleep
Dec 11, 2022, 11:00:02 PM
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Me:
Yes
Dec 11, 2022, 11:00:38 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I have to get them socks ready
Dec 11, 2022, 11:00:45 PM
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Cassie:
Did you leave
Dec 11, 2022, 11:00:51 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
No
Dec 11, 2022, 11:01:27 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
I was looking around the dining room to make sure there wasn't food stashed
Dec 11, 2022, 11:01:57 PM
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Cassie:
Probably went in the trash
Dec 11, 2022, 11:02:29 PM
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Me:
Better than the alternative.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:02:41 PM
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Me:
Also looking for that lanyard I gave you
Dec 11, 2022, 11:03:26 PM
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Cassie:
Who knows where it is
Dec 11, 2022, 11:03:48 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
That's why I tried giving it to you. So you could put it up. Oh well.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:05:00 PM
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Cassie:
It was on counter
Dec 11, 2022, 11:05:24 PM
Eastern Time:
Me:
Yeah, but the kids fuck with everything on the counter
Dec 11, 2022, 11:05:50 PM
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Me:
Oh well. I don't think I have anymore
Dec 11, 2022, 11:06:40 PM
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Cassie:
Sorry. I thought it was there
Dec 11, 2022, 11:07:29 PM
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Me:
It was for you. You said you wanted one. Doesn't hurt me at all. I was just trying to be nice
Dec 11, 2022, 11:09:11 PM
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Me:
I dont think I'm going to the store unless you really need me to
Dec 11, 2022, 11:09:34 PM
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Cassie:
Id like a soda.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:10:10 PM
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Cassie:
I'm getting a fucking migraine. I just love this.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:10:34 PM
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Me:
I don't think it's worth running all the way to speedway right now for just a soda.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:10:45 PM
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Me:
I'm still pretty upset about yesterday and today
Dec 11, 2022, 11:11:02 PM
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Me:
I had a migraine earlier. I'm glad it went away
Dec 11, 2022, 11:12:18 PM
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Cassie:
Yeah my is not going to go away
Dec 11, 2022, 11:13:25 PM
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Me:
Okay. Sorry
Dec 11, 2022, 11:15:23 PM
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Cassie:
Right in the middle . Like it gets hard to see . And ugh
Dec 11, 2022, 11:16:02 PM
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Me:
I guess I'll talk to you tomorrow then. I know we won't talk about the shit bothering me.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:16:08 PM
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Me:
Try to get some rest
Dec 11, 2022, 11:16:32 PM
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Cassie:
I am not going to sleep
Dec 11, 2022, 11:16:42 PM
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Cassie:
I'm waiting on Sawyer to go to sleep
Dec 11, 2022, 11:22:03 PM
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Cassie:
Are you leaving ?
Dec 11, 2022, 11:24:28 PM
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Me:
I wasn't planning on it. I didn't think it was worth just a soda.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:26:57 PM
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Cassie:
I thought you were getting drinks
Dec 11, 2022, 11:27:33 PM
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Me:
I have a couple.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:27:45 PM
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Cassie:
Oh okay.
Dec 11, 2022, 11:28:08 PM
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Me:
I don't have much motivation.
Dec 12, 2022, 1:58:57 AM
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Cassie:
You go to bed ?
Dec 12, 2022, 1:59:19 AM
Eastern Time:
Me:
No. Getting socks for the girls.
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